Everyone tells you to \”save more\” and \”invest for retirement.\” Yeah ok thanks. Those aren\’t really goals – they\’re vague directions. Here are 5 specific goals that actually made a difference for me.
1. One month buffer in checking
This is different from an emergency fund. The buffer is money that sits in your checking account so you\’re always a month ahead. You pay December bills with November income.
This eliminated the paycheck-to-paycheck stress more than anything else. No more checking your balance before every purchase. No more timing bills around paydays.
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The goal: have one month of expenses extra in checking at all times.
2. Know your actual net worth number
I avoided calculating this for years because I knew it was negative. But not knowing is worse than knowing a bad number.
Add up everything you own (savings, investments, car value, etc). Subtract everything you owe (credit cards, loans, etc). That\’s your net worth.
Tracking this quarterly helped me see progress I couldn\’t see any other way. Even when individual accounts felt stagnant, the overall number kept improving.
3. Automate so you can\’t mess it up
My goal was to make all my good financial behavior automatic. 401k contributions come out before I see the money. IRA contribution happens on the 1st of every month. High-yield savings transfer happens on payday.
I don\’t have to decide to save – it just happens. Decision fatigue is real and automating removes it.
4. Have a \”fun money\” category that you don\’t feel guilty about
Weird goal? Maybe. But having a specific amount budgeted for whatever I want – no questions asked – actually made me spend less overall.
Before, every \”fun\” purchase came with guilt. So I\’d avoid spending and then eventually splurge way too much in frustration.
Now I have $200/month that\’s mine to blow on literally anything without justifying it. Somehow I often don\’t even spend it all.
5. Know your hourly rate for everything
I calculated what I actually make per hour after taxes. For me it\’s about $34.
Now when I see a $100 purchase, I think \”is this worth 3 hours of my work?\” Sometimes yes, often no. This reframing has saved me so much money.
It also helps with time vs money decisions. Should I spend 4 hours doing something myself or pay someone $80 to do it? At my hourly rate, paying is often the right call.
Set real goals, not vague intentions
\”Save more money\” isn\’t a goal. \”Have $5,000 in emergency fund by December 31\” is a goal. Specific, measurable, time-bound.
Pick one or two things from this list (or make your own) and actually commit to them. Write them down. Put them on your calendar. Track your progress.
Vague good intentions accomplish nothing. Specific goals change your life.